THINGS THAT YOU SHOULD NOT DO AFTER BREAKUP

MOVING ON DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU FORGET ABOUT THINGS. IT JUST MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT WHAT HAPPENED AND CONTINUE LIVING.

In my previous posts i have discussed the importance of moving on in your life instead of feeling the same pain again and again and ways to come over a breakup as soon as possible. Now in this post i am going to discuss about those things that you should never do after your breakup. Now this part is also very important if you want to really move on in your life. 

We do a lot of things after breakup such as we cry for weeks or months thinking about that person, we miss them and actually we don't accept the truth. For weeks or for months we don't believe that we had a breakup because we didn't expected this. So firstly it is very important to accept the truth as soon as possible because when we accept the truth it will be easy for us to move on.

There are certain things that we should not do, to move on in your life. Its is important for us and not for others, so lets take a look at the things that we should not do after breakup. Here we go....

1. DON'T THINK OR TALK ABOUT YOUR EX 

Stop thinking about your ex or talking about them and your breakup to any or everyone. Doing this will never let you come out of this situation. Thinking about that person will depress you and nothing else. And again talking about your ex will make you look weak, and people will look at you with pity and i am sure you don't want this so be strong and avoid talking about your ex.  

2. STOP STALKING YOUR EX ON SOCIAL MEDIA 

Stop stalking or following your ex on social media. Stop keeping an eye on your ex's activities. Because when you will follow their activity you will find that they have already moved on in their life and this will hurt you that how he/she can do this to you and you will feel bad. So its better to avoid doing this, it will not help you.  

3. DON'T EMBARRASS YOUR EX IN FRONT OF EVERY ONE

After your breakup if you face your ex, just don't start yelling at him/her madly. Or just don't pass any such comments that embarrasses your ex in front of every one. Well if you do so, you will get some satisfaction bet only for a short period and you will do this again to satisfy yourself. There will be no difference between you and your ex. Because you were hurt by your ex doesn't mean your will hurt them back i mean there will be no difference between you two.  

4. DON'T EMBARRASS YOUR EX IN FRONT OF THEIR NEW BF/GF 
Don't embarrass your ex infront of their bf/gf. If you will do so it will create miss understanding between them and its not your ex who will be  wrong, but yes you will become the villan in the whole story though you are the victim. So don't do this as you will have a bad impression of yours on others and people will think you are the one who is wrong.  

5. DON'T CHANGE YOURSELF OR YOUR LOOK
Don't change yourself after your breakup just be the person you are. People think that they don't look good that's why he/she left me. But please this is not the reason why he/she left you its not the looks that matters its your heart that matters. So please don't have a makeover or change your look or have a hair cut etc. 

6. DON'T TRY TO HURT THEM
Please don't try to hurt your ex, don't just attack your ex when you see her/him. This will just make you a criminal and you will never come out of your breakup. Please Please please don't do this you know that this is not you.. right??? You will be trapped in all this and you will never be able to come out of it. You are ruining your own life please understand this thing.   

7. DON'T STALK YOUR GF/BF
Don't stalk your b/f or g/f like a psychopath. When you do this you are harassing someone and harassing some is not right. If you think that by doing this you will create problem for them than you are wrong because you are creating problem for yourself only. Please don't do this.   

8 DON'T BE AN ALCOHOLIC
Now having a breakup doesn't mean that you will become an alcoholic. Like sitting in the bar and drinking on and on like anything. If you become an alcoholic you are ruining your life and yourself, you are not harming others you are harming yourself. When you will look at your self you will realize that "what have you done to yourself... this is not you". 

9. DON'T BE ALONE
As in my previous post i pointed out that don't be alone. Don't just sit lonely and feel lonely. Its better to talk to your friends, parents or your sibling. Just spend some time with your friends and family and you will feel better, instead of sitting alone.

10. DON'T PRETEND IN FRONT OF YOUR EX
If you face your ex please don't try to pretend that you are awesome, you are happy without him/her, you feel so great, you are feeling so good etc. as you will be caught and your ex will come to know that you are trying to pretend that you are happy, but actually you are not . Also don't show your emotions that you are upset, unhappy, lonely and you miss them. Just try to be normal, just behave in the you you used to behave.
When you face your ex and if they try to talk to you, just reply in a normal way and then excuse your self  walk away from him/her and just say "Phewwwww..... That was hard.... But I did it... Yessss...."😊😊 And be proud of it. 😄😄😄😄

11. DON'T BE IN TOUCH WITH YOUR EX

Don't be in touch with your ex, even if your ex ask you to do so. If you will be in their touch you will just hurt yourself and you will never be able to forget them. Being in contact with your ex will give more pain and nothing else, and you will feel like calling them. So its better to remove all the contacts if possible. 

12. DON'T INSULT YOUR EX
Don't insult your ex by passing unnecessary comments or texting some bad words or abusing your ex. I know some people finds pleasure in abusing their ex but believe me it is not cool. Please don't do this. 

13. DON'T GET INTO A NEW RELATIONSHIP JUST TO MAKE YOUR EX JEALOUS
Now just to make your ex feel jealous please don't get into a relationship with anyone you just met or without knowing him/her properly. You know that you are not doing this for yourself you are just doing this because you want your ex to be jealous. You will be trapped, don't repeat the same mistake you made earlier. Give yourself some time and space after breakup.

14. DON'T DESTROY YOUR EX'S PERSONAL PROPERTY 
Don't destroy or harm the personal property of your ex. Writing some thing bad about your ex on their car sounds great but please don't do this. If you will harm their property than for sure they will harm yours. You can put yourself in trouble if you do so.

So here are the things that you should not do after break up. If you don't agree with the points please feel free to write your comments and what you think about it. And if you think that you should still do the things that i have asked you not to do please read my previous post THE BEST OPTION AFTER BREAK UP : MOVE ON and 10 WAYS TO GET OVER A BREAKUP AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. THANK YOU 😊😊😊