Failing Doesn't Mean It's Never Gonna Happen

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We fail at something and give up because it is somewhere in our mind that "I failed means I lost". When we fail at something, we assume that it is impossible to succeed in that task. And hence we decide to give up instead of trying again and again. We are conditioned to believe that we will never be able to succeed in that work ever and it is somewhere in our mind. Read the following story to understand better....

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"Once a Scientist was experimenting with a shark. In this experiment he kept a shark in a huge fish tank with few small fishes. Shark took a round of the tank and within a few minutes shark ate all the fish in the tank. The second time the scientist divided the fish tank with a glass partition and and put the shark on one side and few more small fishes on the other side of the tank. Now the shark tried to attack the fishes but he was not able to reach them because of the glass partition. He tried to attack for few hours and got tired and finally gave up after trying for few more hours. Scientist continued this experiment for few more days. Everyday the shark tried to attack the fishes, but he couldn't succeed and at last the shark use to give up. The scientist noticed that each day the shark was getting less violent. So the scientist removed the glass partition, and guess what happened, the shark didn't attacked the fishes. The reason being that the shark assumed that there is a glass wall and he can never succeed in what he want."

We all act like the shark. We try for time, days, weeks, months and a year. We fail and don't get the results and believe that "I can never do this". We accept that this is the end and without giving it another try we give up. It is said that "When your time comes no one can stop you from being where you want to be". Without waiting for the right time we decide to quit.

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"I lost" is something that is in our mind. We are the one who let our mind believe that there is a huge wall that stops us to be on the other side of the wall which is called "Success". Instead of letting your mind presume that you can't do this tell yourself that "Today I learned a new lesson from my failure and that is to never give up".

Moral of the story is very clear that don't let your failure hold you back from achieving what you want, always believe that every thing is possible and your success is inevitable. Failure is something to be learned from and not something that holds you back from achieving what you want. If you failed for the first time, doesn't mean it will never going to happen. Achieving success is hard, but not impossible.

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13 Simple Ways To Deal With Negative Thoughts

We all get a lot of thoughts in our mind when we spend some time alone. We spend our free time with our mind, getting a lot of thoughts. But most common thought that we get are the "Negative Thoughts". Thoughts full of worries for future, flashbacks of our difficult times in past, underestimating our abilities and only bad things will happen to you.

The clouds of negativity surrounds our mind and we can hardly see the bright side of our life, things and relationship. Negative thoughts not only affect our physical and mental health, but it also affect your self confidence, stops us from focusing on important things, prevent us from thinking clearly and productively.

Dealing with negative thoughts and shifting your focus on positive thinking is not easy but "Yes It Is Possible!!!". Here is how you can manage and deal with your negative or unwanted thoughts with these simple tips :

1. Get involved in some constructive work : Involve yourself in some constructive activity to divert your mind from getting negative thoughts. Idle mind brings a lot of negativity in your thoughts so get involved in some activities such as reading, spend time with your friends and family, pursue your hobbies etc. Instead of spending time with unwanted thoughts spend time in positive activities.


2. Stop doubting your abilities : Stop doubting yourself and your abilities. When you doubt yourself you get negative feelings about you. For example if you fail at something, instead of saying "I will nail it the next time when I do it." you say "I will never do this again, it is not my cup of tea." Start believing in yourself, doing this you will feel more confident about yourself and you will stop bringing negative thoughts in your mind.

3. Pray On The Daily Basis : As I said in my previous posts as well that Prayer is the solution to all your problems. Prayer brings positivity around you, motivates you, prevents stress and depression. Prayer make you feel good from inside, and when you feel good from inside, it reflects in your thoughts as well. Prayer brings a lot of positivity, when you close your eyes and remember god, and when you open your eyes all you can feel is positivity. 

4. Be Realist : Be a realist and accept your problems or any particular situation in the way they are. A realist always accepts his/her problem in the way they are and try to find solutions to their problems instead of worrying about what will happen. Your worries will only lead you towards negative thoughts, but as soon as you learn to accept your situation the way they are you will not find difficulties in your situation. No worries means only positive attitude.

5. Meditate : Meditation leads to relaxation. It take your focus away from negative thoughts and helps you to focus only on one thing and that is your breathing. The best way to meditate is "Just imagine that you can see the flame of a candle and then try to concentrate on the flame. Forget about everything and focus on the flame. Breath in and breath out slowly." And when you open your eyes after 15 mins. you will feel relaxed and your focus will be removed from your problems and now you can concentrate on your present.


6. Positive Affirmation : Say some positive affirmation to yourself such as "If i failed today doesn't mean I will fail every time." or "Though I have scored a little less marks in my test but I will score better in my next test." Saying positive affirmation will motivate you for doing better and it will help you to refrain negative thought such as "I can't do this" or "I am just a mediocre".

7. Find Something Good In Every Situation : Try to find something good in every situation even if the situation is problematic. If you keep on pointing mistakes or flaws in yourself or in someone else or in any particular situation you will never be able to bring yourself out from your negative thoughts. Instead it will get even stronger. So look for positive and good things in any situation.

8. Stop Judging : Stop judging yourself, someone else or any particular situation negatively. We all judge people, situation and sometimes our self negatively. We don't believe in our potential and hence we are unable to find solutions to our problems. Just stop for a while and think that "Why are you doing this?" or "Will negative judgement help you?". If you can't stop judging making positive judgement about people, yourself or situation. 

9. Stop Comparing : Comparison leads you nowhere. Constant comparison leads to dissatisfaction, demotivation and negativity. Stop comparing your life  with someone else ideal life as no one owns a perfect life. Instead of comparing learn to be satisfied with what you have.


10. Practice Gratitude : Practice gratitude, be thankful for what you have. There are a lot of unfortunate people who dream to own your life or a life like you. Being thankful will never lead you to comparison, rather it will lead you to a satisfied life. So instead of complaining and thinking that your life is bad, be thankful for your life and what you have in your life. Practising gratitude will help you to free yourself from the unnecessary thankless thoughts.

11. Help Someone : Be kind is what we taught through out our life. Just think why you help someone in problem? Because you understand there situation, you feel what they are going through. And when you understand there situation you will find that your problem is nothing infront of them. Helping someone in problem or an unfortunate will give you the feeling of pleasure. Helping someone will help you to let go all the negative thoughts you have about yourself, any particular people or situation.

12. Surround Yourself With Positive People : Always surround yourself with positive people. Some people always talk negative, even if you do something worth remembering they will point out flaws in your achievements, so try to avoid the company of such people. Positive people is always going to appreciate you even your small achievements. When you will get appreciated you will start getting positive thoughts about what you can do.

13. Read Positive Quotes : Read more and more positive quotes. Positive quotes will drain out all the negative thoughts from your mind. You will realize that all the negative thoughts you had were pointless and you getting nothing out of it. Reading positive quotes will not encourage you to think positive but it will also motivate you.

Practice these tips in your life and bring positivity in your thoughts. And show the exit door to negative thoughts. Be Positive And Think Positive!!!

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You Will Remain Valuable... No Matter What !!!

You Will Remain Valuable... No Matter What !!!

Life is a tough. There are times when we make some bad decisions, deal with harsh circumstances and face tough time. We work hard day and night but we don't get the results. The feeling of nothing is going right, the way I thought. We doubt ourselves and start believing that we are worthless.

The feeling of being worthless is so strong that we often forget "Our Value". We forget that we are valuable and we never lose our value even if we get through the most harsh circumstances and rejections. This is what the story below has to say. The story that reminds you that "You Are Valuable".

A popular speaker holds a seminar. He starts his seminar by holding a $20 bill in his hand. Around 200 people gathered to listen to him. Holding a $20 note in his hand the speaker asked the crowd "Who would like to have this $20 bill?".

All the 200 people raised there hand together.

He said "What if I do this?", saying this he crumbled the bill. "Now who wants this bill?"

Again all the 200 people raised their hand.

Again he said "And what if I do this?", saying this he dropped the $20 bill on the ground and stomped the bill with his shoes. He showed the bill to the crowd which was crumbled and dirty. He asked "Now, who still wants this?"

All the hands still went up in a flow.

Seeing this the speaker smiled and said "My friends I demonstrated a very important lesson of life infront of you. No matter what I did to this bill... I crushed it... Crumbled it... Even stomped it... But the value of the bill didn't decreased. It was still worth $20. And thats what happens to us in our life. We make wrong decisions and face really hard circumstances. We are crumbled and grind into dirt by our life. But our value remains the same, it doesn't make us worthless. So no matter how difficult your life is, but the most important thing is 'You Never Lose Your Value'.

This story always remind you that even if things doesn't work in the way you planned, but you should never make yourself feel worthless. You will face difficulties, hardships, rejections and obstacles through out your life. But all you should remember is that "You are special" and "You are valuable" and don't ever forget this.

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Your Dream... Is Your Responsibility...!!!

       "If You Take Responsibility Of Yourself You Will Develop A Hunger To Accomplish It."  - Les Brown

Remember, when we where young when we dreamed to be the most popular and successful person. We had strong belief in our abilities and capabilities and we had a thought that we can achieve whatever we want. And everything seems to be really easy and this use to encourage us to dream even bigger. Our self believes and positive attitude toward our dream always encouraged us to pursue our dreams and goals.

And when the time comes, everything starts looking difficult and nearly impossible. We start having the feeling that it’s not working like the way I thought. And by this time all the positive attitude and thoughts we use to have, are all gone. We become lazy and we don’t work for our dreams. People struggle and loose the vision, purpose, and direction of their dreams. And then we realize that we have lost our focus and our dreams become indistinct.

We also start expecting support from our parents or family. We expect that they are going to help us to turn our dreams into reality.

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It’s your dream and it is purely and only your responsibility to make it happen. Take charge of your dreams now. It’s your responsibility to turn your dreams into reality and no one else is going to do it for you. “My father, mother brother or sister is not responsible for my dreams”. No one is going to work for you. We must realize that if can dare to dream big then we should be strong enough to take the full responsibility for our dreams.

Dream to chase it, set goals to be achieved, make plans to pursue it, work hard to MAKE IT HAPPEN!!! No one is going to work hard for your dreams, like the way you are going to work hard for it. No one else is going to put the same amount of effort for your dreams, the way you are going to put. And most importantly no one is going to value your dreams, like the way you are going to value it.

So stop expecting that others are going to work for you. You have a very limited time so get up and start working for your dreams to make it happen because it’s no one else except for you who can do this. The steering of your dreams is in your hands, and it will go in the direction where you want to take it. Don’t let someone  

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Keep The Process Of Learning On

"Success And Learning Are The Sides Of Same Coin."

A successful person is never satisfied with his/her work. Well, yes successful people are never satisfied with their work until they reach perfection. They are satisfied with their life, but not with their work.

When you are satisfied with your work, then, the scope of improvement and the process of learning stops. Learning is a never ending process and even the wisest mind has something to learn. Successful people have a distinct quality that they never stop learning.

This world is full of new experiences. One should always be willing to learn something new, discover something and do something that you think is really challenging for you or is difficult for you. Set new goals to achieve. The process of learning is applied to every field and every profession. It’s a great to have a little knowledge about something and if possible of everything. 

They believe in learning something new every day. They learn from their mistakes, they learn from their failure, they learn from their rivals or competitors, they even learn something from their criticiser. And this makes them better and different from others.

So, it’s really good to learn something new from someone or something. As life is a process of learning… When you really learn something that means you are making progress towards success. Learning something new not only makes you successful, but it helps to improve, adds to your experience and makes you a better person than ever.

Even I learn something new every day… About blogging, or about marketing, or about improving my writing skills, or something about social media, or something related to my blog etc. And I am never satisfied with my writing skills. Every day I write a new post and I think that I should improve it, how can I Improve it and how can I make my content better than before.

In short, I always initiate myself to improve myself and learn something new. So, always initiate yourself to keep the process of learning on and try to improve your work. Remember, a person with a better knowledge is not far away from his/her destination.

Don’t let the process of learning and the scope of improvement stop. Because, if it stops then, the journey towards success also stops.

So keep learning, keep improving and keep moving.

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Just Give It A Try !!!

“Well, it’s always a great idea, to drop the idea of quitting.” These are the words I say to myself whenever I get the thought of quitting. And I only get the thought of quitting and I don’t really mean it because I believe in myself. So what I was saying was that you should keep trying and never give up on your dreams. Dreams are meant to be fulfilled, and not for leaving it half done.

And it is always a good idea to keep trying harder until you reach your goal or until you achieve success. I would like to explain it with a short example... “Have you ever seen a race… Or have you ever participated in a race… Well, in a race every single athlete knows that only one amongst them is going to win this race… In simple words, there will be only one winner in the race… But they still participate and run in the race…”

Every athlete runs with the same amount of enthusiasm, passion, hope and motivation to win. They all run with the thought that they will win. And they never bring the thought of quitting. They have a thought that no matter what the is going to be, I will get down in the race to win.

And not only in a race, but every player in every game comes to the ground only with the thought of winning. 

So how can you be so unfair with your dreams… If you have the courage to dream big… Then you should also have the courage to make it come true… You should also have the courage to work hard for it… And It’s always a great idea to give it a try… "Run With The Confidence Of Winning, Not With The Fear Of Loosing".

So, have that passion like an athlete, so that instead of quitting, you should always give it a try so that there is no regret in the future. Chase Your Dream… Follow It… Work Hard For It… And Fulfil It…  

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Always Believe In Yourself…

“When You Decide To BELIEVE In Something, Start It With YOURSELF”

Before we start I would like to share a beautiful thought that I read somewhere… “A bird sitting on a tree is not afraid of the branch breaking… Because her trust is not in the branch… Her trust is on her wings…”

If you don’t believe in yourself how can you expect someone else to believe in you? So, to make others believe in you, first you have to believe in yourself.

Just imagine, if Thomas Alva Edison would have not believed in his discovery. Then today I would have been writing this post on a piece of a paper under a lamp.

Or what if Steve Jobs would have not believed in himself and his products. We would have never got such a big brand called “Apple”.

And what if, Mahatma Gandhi would have not believed in himself and his country can get freedom. Then India would have never got the Independence from britishers. If these personalities would have not believed in themselves, then we would have never got any Thomas Alva Edison, Steve Job Or Mahatma Gandhi.

You know that you are capable of more than you think… Your Ability is beyond yours and everyone else’s imagination… And most importantly you know that you can do this… Because Believing in yourself can help you achieve that is unachievable.

Remember that believing in your ability, capabilities and yourself is not only the secret but, it is also the first rule for “success”. As successful people always believe themselves that “Yes!!! I Can Do This”.

First, start believing in yourself, and when you do so, you are half a way there and then you will be unstoppable…. And We can get more Thomas Alva Edison... More Steve Jobs... And More Mahatma Gandhi.

Just think how will, you prove your ability, capability and talent to others, if you yourself don’t believe in it. And if you don’t believe in yourself why will someone else believe you. And if you don’t believe yourself, then who will??? Try To Answer These Questions In The Comment Section Below.

Follow Your Dream And Believe In Yourself.

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Explore Your Opportunities....

Choosing your career is a difficult task. As your one wrong decision can lead to choosing a wrong career for yourself. Usually you get a lot of advice from our family, friends and relatives. 10 different people will give you 10 different advice. And eventually, you get confused that which one is best for you.

It is really important to have a very clear vision about what you want to do and what "You"are interested in. "You" play a very important role in choosing your career. 

It is not necessary that you have to be a Doctor, if your father is a Doctor. Or you don't have to be a lawyer if your family is full of lawyer, in simple words don't be a lawyer just because all your family members are Lawyers. Just be what you want to be.

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Even my family is full of doctors. But I decided to choose a different path for me. And my older brother also did the same. I opted for commerce. And my brother who is also my inspiration, opted for Architecture. And finally I ended up to be a Blogger. And today I am the "only blogger" and my elder brother is the "only Architect" of my house.

A great career option is not limited to doctors, engineers or a lawyer... There are much more to explore so that you can find the one that is the best option for you.

       The Ocean Of Career Opportunities Is Full Of Unlimited And New Career Options.

Remember, as I said earlier different people can give you different advice related to your carrier. But please take it as a advice, and choose the right carrier you are interested in. The word "you are interested in" is most important as it is your career. 

There are more carrier opportunities in every field. And don't just limit yourself to Doctors,engineers and lawyers. There are a lot more to explore. So try everything and choose the best one for yourself.

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