13 Sings That Shows You Are In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship And You Need To Walk Out Of It

Emotional abuse is as bad as physical abuse. Physical abuse and emotional abuse are not the same, but yes emotional abuse is followed by physical abuse.

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Emotional abuse makes you hollow from inside. Were you are not you anymore. You loose your confidence and most importantly you lose yourself. If you feel that you are living in an abusive relationship don't be afraid of taking help from your friends, family and if needed police as well.

Don't ruin your life by thinking that " This is my life. I love him/her so much. And if i will leave people will think I am the one who is wrong. I really want to leave, but will anyone help me? How will other people react?"

Stop bothering about people or what they will think. Its your life and you are free to take decisions of your life. Please don't lose yourself, start believing in yourself because you are strong and you are not weak.

Remember "Our Biggest Enemy Is Fear. If You Really Want To Win, Then Defeat Your Fear First." So fight your fear and don't be afraid of it. Fight your abuser with the help of your family, friends and society. They will help you believe me. ☺☺☺
  

There Are Various Helpline numbers and various other help available for the person living in abusive/emotionally abusive relationship.

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What is Emotional Abuse ?

In emotional abuse, abuser tries to break you down or brainwash you by putting restrictions, threatening, controlling, insulting, blackmailing or verbal assault. And you lose your identity, self respect, self worth, dignity and independence.

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Sings are equal to warning and if you see one, take it seriously. And when you are getting warned then it means that now its time to take action against it. And remember not every one gets warnings in their life, before something bad happens to them. Here we go.....

1. Blackmailing is very common in which abuser blackmails you that if you leave or break the
relationship then he/she will commit suicide.

2. Abuser try to control you. The abuser controls every move of their partner for example how to talk, how to dress, whom to talk etc. They also make feel that you need to take permission whenever you go out.

3. Abuser will Blame you for everything, even though if you didn't do anything. If you had a fight you will be blamed. If something bad happened in their life you will be blamed. Abuser will make you feel guilty for the mistakes that you have not done.

4. Using bad or inappropriate language for you that hurts you.

5. Threatening is another important sing of emotional abuse. Abuser will threaten to kill you or threatens to harm you if you leave or don't do as they say.

6. Your abuser will never appreciate you he will always criticise you for your looks or anything else.
Name calling or passing unpleasant or sarcastic comments.

7. Getting angry or a sudden outburst on something they didn't liked. Yelling at you like anything. Overacting on small things or problems. Fighting on small issues.

8. Abusers are Jealous when they see you talking to some other guy/girl.

9. Put restrictions or isolate you. Abusers isolate you from talking to your friends or family.

10. Disengage or neglect you to punish. They don't answer you or don't take your calls to neglect you because they are angry. Yes i agree that every one do so but the difference is that abusers do this very frequently only to punish you. 

11. Share personal things about you with others. Sharing your personal conversation with his/her friends which they are not suppose to share.

12. Insults you infront of everyone just to show that your abuser has control on you. 

13. Denial of abusing when confronted. They never admit that they are abusing and don't apologise for their behaviour.

Sometimes we don't realize that we are emotionally abused. The first step to come out of an abusive relationship is to know that you are emotionally abused by your partner.
And Second step is to seek help from your family and friends to come out of that relationship.
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